What is a Mentor?

I spent an interesting hour this morning with half dozen 1st to 3rd grade learners discussing the need for mentors on our Hero Journey. We read and discussed the beautiful picture book story Me and Mr. Mah 
written by Angela Spalding and illustrated by Janet Wilson. Mr. Mah is a wonderful fictional portrayal of the qualities of a great mentor. Here is the list of mentor behaviors in Mr. Mah that the children helped me discover: 1. He completely accepted Ian as he was - no judgements. 2. He gifted Ian with sunflower seeds and 3. invited Ian into his garden and 4. he let Ian touch and nibble and smell his way through the unfamiliar vegetables. 5. Mr. Mah taught him specific skills about how to take care of his sunflowers. 6. Mr. Mah gifted Ian with his time and 7. a listening ear and heart. 8. As they shared feelings and memories  9. Trust grew between them. 10. They showed concern for each other and, most important, 11. through serving each other unconditionally they grew to love each other.
Notice all the ACTION words; mentors DO things. Who are the mentors in your life? Who can you mentor in return? Can a great book be a mentor? Can a beloved pet be a mentor? Pay attention, learn to recognize when you are being mentored and enjoy the journey!

Always learning,
Mrs. J